I do feel pity that the guy left Weixin. Since you loved him,why not go on with him? You are gay,which you can never get rid of. I think you can get on well with your wife and family if you know the way to deal with it.I do hope to know you if you see my words here.By the way, if zhuo goes against his nature ,what will happen later in the future to the family and him? Happiness or sadness?